The Best Personality

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1. Kindness

  • Making the other person spoiled, entitled, and ungrateful
  • Making the other person dependent on us and weak
  • Doing improper favors and things to make them happy

​Self-Reflection:

  • Is my kindness to others wise or unwise?
  • Do I need to be more kind or more wise?

2. Attention-to-Detail

  • Being too demanding towards others, which creates conflict
  • Wasting time on unimportant things
  • Create unnecessary stress for ourselves
  • Missing the big picture

Self-Reflection:

  • Do I have too much attention-to-detail or not enough?
  • Do I need to improve my attention-to-detail or big picture thinking?

3. Planning

  • Becoming rigid and unable to deal with things outside our plan
  • Becoming stubborn and creating conflict with others
  • Becoming indecisive and then procrastinating

​Self-Reflection:

  • Do I plan excessively or not enough?
  • Do I need to improve my planning abilities or my ability to go with the flow?

4. Conscientiousness

​Self-Reflection:

  • In which situations do I need to be more serious?
  • In which situations do I need to be more light-hearted?

5. Speed

​Self-Reflection:

My Experience

  • More logical-focused than kindness-focused
  • High attention-to-detail
  • High planning
  • High conscientiousness
  • High speed

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