Lucky People Speak Few Words

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Commentary

  1. As Prime Minister Xie An mentioned, people who speak a lot are impetuous and rash, which leads to many mistakes and problems.
  2. People who speak a lot have an agitated and undisciplined mind, which leads to many mistakes and problems.
  3. People who speak a lot are overly self-centered and perhaps arrogant, so others won’t like them. If others don’t like them, they won’t have good luck.
  4. People who talk too much don’t listen enough, and if they don’t listen to others, they don’t learn and improve.
  5. People who speak a lot are more likely to say something wrong, which brings bad luck.
  6. People who like to gossip about others might make enemies, which then attracts disasters.
  1. Is it true?
  2. Is it useful to the listener?
  3. Is now the right time to say this?
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Self-Reflection

Conclusion

  1. Do you have any bad speaking habits to fix?
  2. How are you doing with regards to the three filters?
  3. Do you listen more or speak more?

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